I have a question. Before I get to the question I have a short story to tell you. I found this appalling and would like to know if I am the only one bothered by this, so please leave a comment if you feel the need.
A few days ago Dwayne and I stopped at our local Target before heading off to a house warming. Of course the first thing I had to do was run off to the restroom as that seems to the only thing pregnant women can count on to be a definite event at least every five seconds. As I entered the restroom the first thing that I and every other person (which was at the very least 11 other people) noticed was a small 5 year old child in one of the stalls screaming her head off. At first, I thought that her mother had taken her in there to reprimand her so that she wouldn't make a scene in the store. But as I finished my business and went to leave the restroom a few of her inaudible words became audible
"I want my mommy!!!"
I looked around the room to find that, though a few people had noticed, no one was doing anything other than looking moderately concerned or shaking there heads and leaving. It didn't take long to figure out which stall the little girl was in, even from where I stood on the other end of the bathroom I could see two bare and filthy feet, as they were covered in her own fecal matter (apparently she had diarrhea). She had kicked off her sandals and her underwear which were laying on the floor next to a pile of and covered in you know what. Out side of the stall stood another small girl (about 6 or 7 years old) guarding the door looking very uneasy. So to show my disgust with other peoples lack of concern I let every one know she actually had a problem.
"Does anyone know where her mom is?" heads shook no in response.
"Is anyone aware that she has pooped all over herself and the floor and crying for her mom?" yet again heads shook no in response.
One woman decided to help asking the sobbing child through the door if she knew where her mom was. The girl cried no. So I asked the little girl outside the stall (Who we found out later was the 5 year olds cousin) if she knew where the girls mom was, she said that she didn't. The only thing that she did know was that mom was shopping.
I asked the kind woman to stay there with them and said that I would get the female security guard and have her page the girl's mom. She agreed to do so and I wandered off to find security, who in turn got the store manager (also a woman). She paged the mom and guess what?!?!? Not only had mom left a 5 year old and a 6 year old to go to the restroom by themselves (which by the way was right next to the stores entrance and exit where they could have easily been dragged out and had God knows what done to them) but she had two other adult women and a teenage girl with her shopping!! That little girl had been screaming for at least 20 minutes by the time mom and friends showed up (looking pissed that she had her name paged across the store) who knows how long they had been in the bathroom, but I guarantee no one from that group had gone to check on those 2 small kids!! I'm still fuming about it.
Now for my question, What ever happened to parents that give a damn? Where have all the parents gone? When will it ever occur to any of these people that these children (who they gave birth to and consider to be either an inconvenience or a subject not important enough to worry about) are not only their responsibility but THEIR FLESH AND BLOOD!!! Furthermore, OUR CHILDREN ARE OUR FUTURE! Whether any of them believe it or not, what we choose as a way of parenting will mold our futures as the elderly. So many parents out there seem to be teaching their kids that the only thing in life that counts is taking care of numero uno. And no, I'm not saying to teach kids to be pushovers, but what is wrong with them growing up caring about someone else at least once in a while? We are raising future leaders, presidents, doctors, mechanics (yes, they are important too, think about it. would you want someone who doesn't have a conscience working on your brakes?), teachers and so many more. Whatever they choose to be will still impact you in someway, even if it is the kid back on the grill at McDonalds. Your Medicare, Medicaid, physical and mental well being will eventually be decided upon by your children, how much do you think they will care about you if you don't give a damn about them?
For Now,
Lauri